SheMogul Profile: Tell Me Have You Seen Her?

Have you seen her? I know I have. That woman who you admire, the one you secretly wish that you could be? She glides through life, and seems to always be one step ahead of the game. She is super sweet, personable, sharp, and savvy. Every time you see her you wonder how she makes it all happen and look so effortless. You seem to always ask yourself how she can have it all and keep her sanity. Well ladies I think I have the key to their effortless success. It's called focus. They know what they want and how to get it. They don't waste their time chasing after things that are not on the path to their destiny. They plan, execute, and live a disciplined life. Remember discipline is the only way to have freedom.

My mom is that women for me. She isn't glamorous or rich, but she has heart. She raised 5 kids alone, and scrapped to give us all a chance in this life. She never complained about the sleepless nights, or the monumental sacrifices she has made so that we can have. She just kept pushing forward with the hope that one day it will all pay off. Many times I wondered how she did it. She was focused, focused on making sure that each one of her children knew that no matter what we had or didn't have she loved us no matter what. Guess what y'all, I know my mother loves me.

To be focused you need to know what you want. Do you know exactly what YOU want? Not what others want for you, but what you want for yourself from this life? If not try this....make a list of 30 things that you want, 30 things you want to do, and 30 things you want to be before you die. Yes 30 things seems like a bit much, but it will help to get you thinking deeper and make you more aware.

How to use 30 lists!!!!

• Make goals and plans based on what you want.
• Use your list to gage your progress
• Once you accomplish something on your list add something else
• When your feeling off track take a look at your list to get yourself back on track

Happy List Making,

Shameka